saying :"and i have way to high of an f stop", you mean you were a bit too slow on the shutter speed ???
A funny thing : i used to begin photo around my 16-18 y.o., and it was full argentic at this time, well now, in numeric reflex, aps sensor, I have to multiply the lens length by 1,5, and so with a 50mm, it gives a 75 mm, wich is my favorite one !!!
So in the past I used to have the habit to not get lower than 1/30 sec, I was quiet enough to not have blur, but I kept this damn habit, meaning that at leasr a good 1/4 of my pics lacks definition... Am I silly ?????
BTW : Go and clear that camera and those lenses before you go to bed : THIS IS AN ORDER !!!!! (LOL)